Miracle happens

Well here it's my post related to 80 year Old man......
(1) Have a firm handshake.
(2) Look people in the eye.
(3) If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
(4) Keep secrets.
(5) Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen Everyday.
(6) Always accept an outstretched hand.
(7) be brave. Even if you're not,pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
(8) avoid sarcastic remarks.
(9) choose your life's mate carefully.from this one decision will come 90 percent of all your happiness or misery.
(10) make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never findout.
(11) lend only those books you never care to see again.
(12) never deprive someone of hope ; it might be all that they have.
(13) give people a second chance bit not third.
(14) Be romantic.
(15) become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
(16) loosen up. Relax. Except for rare -life and death- matters,nothing is as important as it first seems.
(17) don't allow the phone to interrupt
Important moments. It's there for our convenience,not the caller's.
(18) Be a good loser.
(19) Be a good winner.
(20) think twice before burdening a friend with secrets.
(21) when someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
(22) be modest. A lot was accomplished
before you born.
(23) keep it simple.
(24) don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
(25) live your life so that your epitaph could read no regrets.
(26) Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the once you did.
(27) never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
(28) remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
(29) take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
(30) visit friend and relatives who are good for you when they're in hospital.you need only stay a few minutes.
(31) begin each day with some of your favourite music.
(32) once in a while,take the scenic route.
(33) answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
(34) keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table,million dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 am.
(35) show respect for everyone who works for a living,regardless of how trivial their job.
(36) send your loved ones flowers.think of a reason later.
(37) become someone's hero.
(38) marry only for love.
(39) count your blessings.
(40) compliment the meal when you are a guest in someone's home.
(41) remember that 80 percent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.

Something stupid like...i love you

Just now i am listening a song of Robbie williams and Nicole kidman.it's nice song though. honestly, i feel that if saying "I love you" spoils an evening and signals the end of whatever relationship you have, you're probably saying the precious words to the wrong person.

we all like words when come from the heart :)
Song lyrics below here:-

I know I stand in line
Until you think you have the time
To spend an evening with me...
And if we go someplace to dance
I know that there's a chance
You would be leaving with me
Then afterwards we drop into a quiet little place
And have a drink or two
And then I go and spoil it all
By saying something stupid
Like I love you

I can see it in your eyes
That you despise the same old lines
You heard the night before
And though it's just a line to you
For me it's true
And never seemed so right before

I practice every day to find some clever
lines to say
To make the meaning come through
But then I think I'll wait until the evening
gets late
And I'm alone with you

The time is right
Your perfume fills my head
The stars get red
And oh the night's so blue
And then I go and spoil it all
By saying something stupid
Like I love you...

Robbie Williams and Nicole Kidman - Something Stu…: http://youtu.be/icZHj6DG7ms

7 types of friends you really need in life

One thing that we all need is a friend … or two, or three. Too many times we think of someone as a friend, when they’re really just an acquaintance. True friends have qualities that acquaintances do not. Can one or two people have all these qualities? Sure. I would say that if you find someone who exhibits all of them, you’ve found a true friend, maybe even a soul-mate.
Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow ripening fruit.  –Aristotle
I believe there are 7 types of friends we all need. I’ve found 4 and striving to find rest !!
(1)A friend to listen to us

It happens so rarely, perhaps that’s why nothing is more powerful than the art of listening. When someone focuses on you and listens to your ideas, your thoughts, and your concerns, you’ve found a friend. Bonus points if they can listen without prejudice, passing judgment, or feeling the need to constantly give advice or tell you “what they would do.”
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. –Dale Carnegie
(2) A friend we can trust

Trust is a tricky issue and is rarely an “either/or” proposition. Trust is something that comes in degrees, but it is something that is a vital part of any friendship. As a matter of fact, without trust, there can be no friendship.
It is more shameful to distrust our friends than to be deceived by them. –Confucius
(3) A friend to accept us

Acceptance is a willingness and an openness to see things as they really are without scurrying around trying to change them to fit our mold. For example, if you’re feeling tense, you’re just feeling tense. That’s it. A friend doesn’t think it’s horrible or catastrophic or that it will last forever. They certainly don’t think you won’t be able to handle it. It doesn’t mean anything, except that you’re feeling tense at a particular moment.
Acceptance doesn’t mean blanket approval. We can accept a situation without approving of it. Acceptance doesn’t mean we’ve given up. I can accept a diagnosis without giving up on treatment. Acceptance means we’re paying attention.
When your friends begin to flatter you on how young you look, it’s a sure sign you’re getting old. –Mark Twain
(4) A friend to help and support us

Friends help and support each other. Simply put, a friend is loyal and will set aside his or her interests to help. They will faithfully support your decisions and help you see things from different perspectives, even if you don’t always see eye to eye.
There are three faithful friends – an old wife, an old dog, and ready money. –Benjamin Franklin
(5) A friend to love and respect us

Love is putting someone’s highest interests at the top of your priority list. Respect is understanding that others actually can make a worthwhile contribution. It’s hard to have one without the other. A friend is someone who both loves and respects us.
Love begins by taking care of the closest ones – the ones at home.  –Mother Teresa
(6) A friend to hope with us

Hope is the confident expectation of great things to come. We need hope. Someone without hope is a pitiful, dying soul. We need friends who will build up hope inside of us, that will help us hang on just a little while longer when things seem their darkest.
Friends… they cherish one another’s hopes. They are kind to one another’s dreams.  –Henry David Thoreau
(7) A friend to challenge us

We need people in our lives who will challenge us to become better, to strive for more. No, I don’t mean in the sense of accumulating more things, or climbing the corporate ladder, but in becoming better in all the areas I’ve just outlined.
It is easy enough to be friendly to one’s friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business.  –Ghandi
We need each other. Plain and simple. We need each other for friendship, for companionship, for fellowship.
Now the big question: How well do YOU stack up in these areas? Don’t answer that in the comments, but answer it in your own voice inside your head. Where do you need to improve your friendship skills so that someone absolutely needs you in their life?
When you choose your friends, don’t be short-changed by choosing personality over character. –W. Somerset Maugham