Miracle happens

Well here it's my post related to 80 year Old man......
(1) Have a firm handshake.
(2) Look people in the eye.
(3) If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
(4) Keep secrets.
(5) Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen Everyday.
(6) Always accept an outstretched hand.
(7) be brave. Even if you're not,pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
(8) avoid sarcastic remarks.
(9) choose your life's mate carefully.from this one decision will come 90 percent of all your happiness or misery.
(10) make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never findout.
(11) lend only those books you never care to see again.
(12) never deprive someone of hope ; it might be all that they have.
(13) give people a second chance bit not third.
(14) Be romantic.
(15) become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
(16) loosen up. Relax. Except for rare -life and death- matters,nothing is as important as it first seems.
(17) don't allow the phone to interrupt
Important moments. It's there for our convenience,not the caller's.
(18) Be a good loser.
(19) Be a good winner.
(20) think twice before burdening a friend with secrets.
(21) when someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
(22) be modest. A lot was accomplished
before you born.
(23) keep it simple.
(24) don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
(25) live your life so that your epitaph could read no regrets.
(26) Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the once you did.
(27) never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
(28) remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
(29) take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
(30) visit friend and relatives who are good for you when they're in hospital.you need only stay a few minutes.
(31) begin each day with some of your favourite music.
(32) once in a while,take the scenic route.
(33) answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
(34) keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table,million dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 am.
(35) show respect for everyone who works for a living,regardless of how trivial their job.
(36) send your loved ones flowers.think of a reason later.
(37) become someone's hero.
(38) marry only for love.
(39) count your blessings.
(40) compliment the meal when you are a guest in someone's home.
(41) remember that 80 percent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.

Read my lips!!!

Well after watching 3 Idiots I was wondering about the lessons that the movie conveys through its story. Some useful lessons for you which are realy helpful in current compettive scenario.

1. Never Try To Be Successful
Success is the bye-product. Excellence always creates success. So, never run after the success, let it happen automatically in the life..

Do not learn to get success. Learn for knowledge. Success will follow. When we strive hard to learn and improve our knowledge, we move ahead in life.

2. Freedom To Life
Don’t die before actual death. Live every moment to the fullest as you are going to die today night. Life is gifted to humankind to live, live & live @ happiness.

Do not take life too seriously. Life is there to enjoy, have fun, making friends, and of course getting proper education. We get life once and we should live it the way we dream of.


3. Passion Leads To Excellence
When your hobby becomes your profession and passion becomes your profession. You will be able to lead up to excellence in the life. Satisfaction, pleasure, joy and love will be the outcome of following passion. Following your passion for years, you will surely become something one day.

4. Learning Is Very Simple
Teachers do fail. Learners never fail. Learning is never complicated or difficult. Learning is always possible whatever rule you apply.

5. Pressure At Head Current education system is developing pressures on students’ head. University intelligence is useful and making some impact in the life but it cannot be at the cost of the life.

6. Life Is Emotion Management Not Intelligence Optimization Memory and regular study have definite value and it always helps you in leading a life. You are able to survive even if you can make some mark in the path of the life. With artificial intelligence, you can survive and win but you cannot prove yourself genius. Therefore, in this process genius dies in you.

7. Necessity Is The Mother Of Invention
Necessity creates pressure and forces you to invent something or to make it happen or to use your potentiality. Aamir Khan in this film, 3 idiots, is able to prove in the film by using aqua guard pump at the last moment.

8. Simplicity is Life
Life is need base never want base. Desires have no ends. Simplicity is way of life and Indian culture highly stresses on simple living and high thinking, and this is the way of life: ‘Legs down to earth and eyes looking beyond the sky’

9. Industrial Leadership Dean of the institute in 3 idiots is showing very typical leadership. He has his own principles, values and ideology, and he leads the whole institute accordingly. This is an example of current institutional leadership. In the present scenario, most of the institutes are fixed in a block or Squarish thinking.

10. Importance Of One Word In Communication
If communication dies, everything dies. Each word has impact and value in communication. One word if used wrongly or emphasized wrongly or paused at a wrong place in communication what effect it creates and how is it affected is demonstrated very well in this movie.

Learn to communicate well. Each word has its own importance. Proper pauses and stress on certain words will convey the exact meaning, or may even change the entire meaning. Like in the movie, Chatur's speech was modified with few words but the entire speech was changed.

11. Mediocrity Is Penalized

Middle class family or average talent or average institute is going to suffer and has to pay maximum price in the life if they do not upgrade their living standards. To be born poor or as an average person is not a crime but to die as an average person with middle class talent is miserable and if you are unable to optimize your potentiality and die with unused potentiality then that is your shameful truth. One should not die as a mediocre. He/she has to bring out genius inside him/her and has to use his/her potentiality to the optimum level.

hey problem you are nothing

So I was on facebook today and saw a quote on one of my facebook friend's statuses. The quote is this:

"In times of difficulties, don’t ever say, ‘God, I have a big problem!’ Instead say, ‘Hey problem, I have a big God!’ and everything will be all right." ~ Brahma Kumaris

 I am not a believer in mere coincidence.  I mean, in things that really matter.  For instance, I DO believe it could be a coincidence that you wear the same outfit as a friend....or that you call someone who tells you they had just picked up the phone to call you....

It's so easy to get bogged down with all the problems we face in this world (for me, I know, it seems like the list in endless), and it's easy to forget that God really IS bigger than ALL our problems.  But the reality is this -- He totally IS!!

Not only does God fight for us, but He promises to DELIVER us from what ails us.  We just have to be mindful that He will do it on HIS time, not OUR time, and DEFINITELY NOT any other affliction's time, because if He did it on the schedule of the latter, it would never be accomplished, and if He did it on OUR time, it would never teach us patience (one of the hardest, but most rewarding, fruits of the Spirit, to embody).

So....to wrap up....instead of telling God, "God, I have this really big problem and I don't think I can beat it," we should say, "Problem, I have an insurmountably big GOD, and He will take care of you!!"

So take THAT!!  MY GOD FIGHTS ON MY BEHALF, which means He will help me defeat YOU!!